Your child says
"it hurts."
Now what?
A parent's guide to reading pain, making calmer decisions, and keeping your athlete in the game for the long run — from a Doctor of Physical Therapy who has these conversations every day.
Instant PDF download · 132 pages · Includes printable checklists

The moment this book is about
It usually happens in a car after practice.
Your kid mentions their knee. Or their shoulder. Or their back. It's been bothering them for a while, they say, like it's nothing.
And now you have to decide something with almost no information. Do they play this weekend? Do you call someone? Are you the parent who overreacts, or the one who let it go too long?
Most parents get advice at this moment that is either too cautious — rest it, sit out, wait and see — or too casual — they're fine, kids bounce back. Very little of it helps you actually think.
That gap is why this guide exists.
What this is
Understanding Pain in the Youth Athlete is not a diagnosis manual, and it is not a list of injuries. It is a framework for thinking, built on three ideas used with every athlete at ATLAS:
Function is truth.
Adaptation is the goal.
Once you can read pain as information instead of a verdict, the decisions get clearer. You stop guessing. You know which signs mean stop today, which ones mean modify, and which ones mean it's time to call someone — and who to call.
What's inside
Part I — Understanding Pain
- Why This Guide Exists
- Pain Is Information
- The 3 Pillars
- The Pain-Information Gathering Tree
Part II — Decision Making
- The No-Play Categories
- Rest Alone Is Not the Answer
- What Parents Overreact To
- What Parents Underreact To
Part III — Applying the Framework
- Real Athlete Examples
- Growth, Development & Recovery
- Working with Your Performance & Healthcare Team
- Practical Tools & Checklists
- Final Takeaways
Plus a Quick Start page at the front for the middle of a worrying moment, a Who to Call table, and 46 cited studies at the back if you want to go deeper.
What you'll be able to do
- Tell the difference between pain that needs attention today and pain that needs a plan.
- Recognize the five categories where your athlete should stop and be evaluated.
- Ask better questions — the six that turn "my knee hurts" into a picture someone can act on.
- Understand why rest alone rarely fixes the problem, and what to do instead of just stopping.
- Spot the quieter signs kids don't report: the limp they hide, the sport they've stopped enjoying.
- Know who does what — physician, physical therapist, athletic trainer, performance coach — and who to call first.
- Talk to your child's coaches and providers with language everyone understands.
Who it's for
This is for you if your athlete is 8 to 18, plays a sport they care about, and has had something nagging that nobody has fully explained. It's for parents who want to be neither the panicked one nor the dismissive one.
This is not a replacement for medical care, a diagnosis tool, or a rehab program. If something is wrong, the book will help you see it sooner and describe it better — then send you to a person, not a page.
Included with your copy
The Printable Parent Checklists — a separate letter-size PDF with the decision tree and nine checklists: red flags, the information-gathering questions, return-to-play, growth-spurt watch points, sleep and fuel, and questions to bring to an appointment.
Print them, put one on the fridge, keep one in the sports bag.
About the author
Blaire Zikratch, DPT, MSAT, is a Doctor of Physical Therapy with a Master of Science in Athletic Training, and the Owner and Co-Founder of ATLAS Performance Complex.
She works with young athletes and the parents who love them at the exact moment this book is about: when something hurts and nobody is sure what to do next. Over years of rehabilitation, return-to-sport decisions, and performance training, she kept seeing the same pattern — families getting advice that was either too cautious or too casual, and very little that helped them think. This guide is her answer.
Questions
It's a digital download. The moment you check out you'll get a link — on the confirmation page and by email — to the guide and the printable checklists. You can re-download them any time from the link in that email.
PDF, readable on a phone, tablet or computer, and printable at home.
That's the better time to read it. Most of the book is about the decisions that happen long before an injury — training load, growth, recovery, and the early signs that something is building.
No. It's educational, and it says so plainly. It will help you decide when to go, what to bring up, and what to ask.
No. The framework applies across sports. The examples span several.
Yes — email blaire@atlaspc.us and we'll set it up.
Because this is a digital file that can't be returned once downloaded, sales are final. If you have any trouble accessing or downloading your copy, email us and we'll sort it out.
The next time it hurts,
you'll know what to do.
132 pages. One framework. Written for the parent in the car after practice.
Get the Guide — $39Not ready for the whole guide?
Take the checklists. A decision tree and nine of them — red flags, the six questions, return-to-play, growth-spurt watch points. Letter size, made to be printed and stuck on a fridge.
Get the free checklistsThis guide is educational and does not replace individualized medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment from qualified healthcare professionals, and does not create a provider-patient relationship. In an emergency, call 911.